Emotional Intelligence;

A study Peneduh Life
(Self and Social Quantum)

In the post modern era, people have different interests to form a life he forgot to think only of personal satisfaction to meet all his heart. Sesosok human animal is a unique, in the intellect that distinguishes karuniai with other animals, the human as a natiq al hayawanu an animal or a human thinking and also in a homo socius as an animal or a human to interact with others. So no wonder if the various problems associated with the personal satisfaction is always visible.
Behavior in the era of globalization with a neo liberalism turunya children have entered a personal life with the various bids and satisfaction kenikamatan form products in the offer. Even on the domestic life of which the gap between rich and poor, poor people feel termarjinalkan by city life and a very cruel ruler to become rich. Maraknya cases of divorce, drug use, drugs, depression, psikopat, schizophrenia, suicide samapi tawuran between schools and kleptomania, all of this in terms that are in use by Frijof Capra as "diseases of civilization".
This is the phenomenon in the last days, the mengatasnamakan era of science and technology as a new strength. With the present technology, the distance to be close to everything more easily get in the form of information, news hinga list belajaan. Knowledge has also spread virusnya, perkembanganya boundless. Darwin's discovery of evolution to human cloning samapai. Awareness of the missing man at the time due to swallow seriusnya in research at the observatory was to forget the value of boundaries, so no wonder if the science is now at the free value (value free). This is a new world in which all the more easy to get in, who he ketingalan akan terpuruk become a man who terkucilkan.
In fact the development of science and technology is so new at the time of dasyat is not always positively correlated with the welfare of mankind. Sebabkan in the paradigm that is still in use following the modern trend is the use of Cartesian and Newtonian paradigm, the positivistic style of thinking in which the position of reason and natural science in the developing empirical ranah, without knowing the potential of human koprehensif.
The influence of these conditions is very frighten people have experienced the moral decadence, this is still glued on emosinya, consequences of corruption movement occurs, stress, robbery and even murder. While the strength of emotions as the vehicle to maximize the human character that has the strength, position and treat people for position on the human habitat suitability with ekologisnya.
Emotional intelligences in first introduce by Daniel golemen, since the book terbitkanya in "emotional intelligence" and emotional intelligences in the know start knowledgeable about mid 90's year. According to Daniel golemen emotional intelligences (emotional intelligence), the ability to recognize feelings of self and feelings of others, the ability to motivate, manage emotions and ability to interact with other people. In a sense able to use the ability when someone will be able to emotionally appreciate themselves and others.
Education in the world know the two types of intelligences kecerdasn emotional than intellectual acumen that is based on the string of left brain and cognitive ability in verbal and spiritual intelligences, intelligences based on the subconscious brain is based on wisdom beyond ego to build a collective awareness in order to build a creative soul.
Emotional intelligences include five (5) regions namely:
1. self-awareness
2. the self -
3. motivation
4. empathy and
5. social skills
Someone who has intellect akan experiencing emotional openness in thinking, it will be more careful and thorough and the opportunity to achieve success far more likely than the people who have intellectual kecerdasn. If you can take advantage of someone's emotional intelligences akan akan understand much of life and he will not terkucilkan because of societal life is based on emotional acumen to identify themselves other people around the neighborhood.
Quantum awareness to identify themselves, who actually ourselves. We are human beings born into the world with the purity and holiness will be disgraced if someone does not run on the correct path. Like water that flows with kejernihanya akan long journey but sometimes it terkenak dirt that he lalui on the road. Self-awareness is the ability to recognize themselves, could distinguish between the good and bad between the truth and falsehood. The brain is always thinking and emotional strength in the excitatory strength of the brain if the brain thinks the negative emotions will also read negative. So pengaruhilah brain with a good thing, because of the stimulus determine the degree to think how someone emotionally.
The brain also needs to rest, not to stimulate the brain matters worse. Thus the brain also memperlukan do with entertainment such as sleep secukupnya hanger to see with the mind or something beautiful, a tour can bring the brain feels fress. Should force the brain more dasyat on the strength of our bodies, hargailah otakmu before otakmu akan destroy yourself.
After the man is able to recognize kesadaranya own he will be able to manage themselves in a sense self-awareness will affect the setting itself to search for things that are useful. Settings in the start of the smallest things such as bathing with regular, self-discipline, eating on time to maintain health because nutrition affects the brain as a constant with the media thinks. As we ketahu settings very emotional sometimes we need in anger until the settings are not emotions that contribute to how we can keep kedasyatan emotions.
In fact, if someone can not afford to control the akan berpengaruf negative emotions, such as easy anger, stress a person faineant. Of course it's good emotional Arrange for us to always respect the emotional approach to the self khalik to Him and ask for instructions to build a quiet life, in addition to efforts to build a feeling of self.
Motivation is the hidden power behind the power of mind and body, because the motivation in building up self-awareness and self-setting. There is motivation sesorang able to do the best, an example to be smart then he will be able to motivate themselves to study seriously. Motivation is the ability unconscious, which is to build kesadan to the collective ability to do the more meaningful.
Empathy and social skills in which someone is able to respect themselves and respect other people and then expect it to be in esteem. Pengaruhi of empathy in ourselves in that is if someone is able to identify someone with a good sense of the sympathy that will be capable of more meaningful, such as when we see someone who we feel a banga and gave congratulatory bukanya even envy and spite us to him, people appreciate the attitude others that will motivate us to further achievement
Social skills when we are able to skillfully mengahadapi in social problems and we are able to interact with a vengeance persaan not injure others. The world needs social skills because of attitude or value is very meaningful, because attitude can help each other, help in the goodness and tolerance that is in need in the form. Social skills not come naturally but through learning.

Kaleng
I live in the empty cans
I hide in it
I do not know where the world is
Belaum I never laugh and joke lalui
I want out of dalamnnya
Want to know the dream and hope
Hargailah me, because I know not
I will learn from it
23/12/07 (11.33)